First, I'll just show off a few pictures of our travels:
We went to Savannah, GA and ate at a place called the Pirate's House. Crumpet is all about pirates right now, and he adored this place. Here he is with the giant anchor out front:

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Now, we are trying to get back into some kind of routine. I have so many things I want to change and organize around here that I'm making myself a little nuts trying to get it all right immediately. I know that it's unreasonable, but I'm struggling with my limitations!
I saw a serious backslide in Crumpet's knowledge of the basics toward the end of our trips. He forgot how to count past 5! He forgot some names of shapes. I was shocked, and really annoyed with myself for just letting it all go. But we've done some review and he's back where he was now. Time to start learning new things!
I'm planning to be much more prepared about schoolwork from now on. I've made out an actual schedule so that we study certain subjects on certain days. We will also use our version of workboxes, which I'll fill on Saturday nights. (My husband works Sun-Wed so we will do school on the days he is working.) I copied Nicole's spreadsheet (Tired, Need Sleep) for organizing possible activities to use during each week, and I think it will help me keep track of my ideas at last. I have paper lists everywhere, and I love my lists, but I LOSE my lists. So I'm trying something new! Thanks, Nicole!
And I've decided to just go ahead and use the word school with Crumpet. He rebels against anything that looks like something I'd like him to do. If it's expected or required, he won't do it. I was tiptoeing around the school thing, calling everything we did "projects" or "games". He figured it out though, and even if it was something he enjoyed, he started refusing to participate. So we had a talk, and I told him that from now on, he will be required to do some daily learning with me. I'll try to make it as fun as possible! But it is required. It really is time he learned to follow some directions and work on a vague schedule, I suppose!
We started today, and I have to admit it was a huge struggle. Crumpet is on another planet these days - constantly pretending, and spinning in circles and bouncing off the walls. Getting him to focus on anything is really rough. By the end of our lessons, which really are just a bunch of games, I was ready to pull my own hair out. I'm hoping it will improve as it becomes more routine... I'll post about it all at the end of the week, if the men in the white coats haven't taken me away!!
I think I'm going to start linking my school posts to the Preschool Corner. We are still sort of between Tot School and Preschool, but we were the oldest ones over at Tot School, and I'm starting to look for more advanced activities. So, I hope you'll follow me there!
Here's my favorite recent pic:
Wow, you really went to so many places - I love the pirate pictures! It's good to see you back here. :) I hear you about the school stuff and resistance and being hyper, not focusing... ugh. It's hard! I'm actually at a point where I'm re-looking at what I'm doing and how I'm doing it and trying to take M's interests as well as his personality into consideration. It's a huge task though. I hope to post a little about it soon. Anyway, just wanted to let you know you are not in this alone!! And you are doing a GREAT job!!! (Three exclamation points worth, ha.)
ReplyDeleteLooks like you guys had so much fun! D is so into pirates too. We are having a pirate b-day party next month.
ReplyDeleteWelcome back! You went to the great places, and the pictures are cool. On the subject of schooling - I noticed the same with my daughter who is generally super-compliant and pretty advanced in academics. Lately she is not interested in any "sit-down" activities. She wants to play hide-and-seek, catch the ball, roughhouse, play pretend or watch TV. I think routine helps somewhat. For example, we do phonics for about 15 minutes before starting our night time routine, and she came to expect her "reading words". I hope you will find something that works for Crumpet.
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